Sunday, September 27, 2009

Worst Date Paper

Having a date makes a person feels great about themselves. The girl takes hours too look perfect for their date. She makes sure every little detail is perfect on their outfit. While the guy makes sure he smells good and makes sure to take a shower. On a date there a lot of thoughts going through a persons head. They are making sure they are impressing the other person and trying hard to make a good impression. What if this was not the case? On my worst date the guy was rude. He showed up late, smelt bad, and we went to the worst place to ever go on a date.
I was super excited to be going on a date with this guy my friend introduced me to. His name was Trevor and he was a year younger than me. At first I did not want to go on a date with him because of his age but finally my friend convinced me to go on a date with him. He wore torn up pants and a dirty hat on our date. We talk a little bit on the phone before we went on a date so I thought it would make me less nervous. We planed to have dinner at seven o’ clock but he showed up at seven thirty. I was nervous enough but this made me even more nervous because how was I supposed to act when I was upset. Finally, I relaxed enough to ask him where we were going. He told me we were going to Los Banditos. I like Los Banditos but there is one that is extremely dirty, I rayed that we did not go there. After a twenty minute drive unfortunately, we arrived at the dirty Los Banditos.
I asked him why he chose this Los Banditos and he said it was his favorite. I was horrified to go in and eat. I knew I was going to be uncomfortable, but I went in anyways because he was kind of cute. We went in, sat down and ordered our food. When the food arrived at our table I was disgusted. The rice was runny the beans were over cooked and my chicken looked more like potatoes. It was sickening. I was so disgusted it was hard for me to start a conversation with him. He was rude when we talked. I would ask him a question and he would make me feel like I was stupid for not knowing the answer. To make it even worse, he knocked his water onto my leg and acted like it never happened.
The only think that I liked about this date was that I went home. He made me pay for my own dinner. I have no problem paying for myself but it is common courtesy to offer to pay. I would not have let him pay but it is the thought that counts.
After the date was over he tried to text me but I would not respond to his text. Any guy who would treat me like that is not worth my time. He did not even think about how I felt which I found tremendously impolite. I feel bad that I wasted his time but he should have put more thought into our date. I was a little discouraged that our date did not work out. I question myself if maybe I did something that made him act inappropriate on our date.
The thing that surprised me about this date was that he fit my standards on paper but not in person. When we would talk on the phone before our date, he was super nice to me. He acted like he cared about me. He would ask me how my day was and he would always say good night and good morning to me. Also, he was cute but I guess I should know that looks are not everything. I got my hopes up on this date only to be let down.
I am proud that I stuck to my morals on this date. Although I was mad at him for taking me to this horrible restaurant, I did not say anything rude to him because I could tell that he was happy and as long as someone is happy I am satisfy. He was rude to me while he was talking to me but I did not raise my voice at him or tell him he needed to stop. I sat there and took it because I find that starting a fight will not solve anything. He probably would have been too self absorbed to acknowledge how I felt. I did feel that this date was important for me after because I learned from it. I learned that a person can not judge someone just by a text. You need to get to know them first before you can learn if you have a connection because people lie to you.
This date may have horrible but I did learn from it. He was rude and selfish. I did not have fun on this date and wanted it to end almost the minute it started. At the time I wish I had not followed my morals and said something to him, but looking back I’m glad that I stuck to my morals and kept my mouth shut. Being me is more important than putting someone in their place. I am glad that I never have to go through that date again.

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